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What's Your Next Step with ADHD?

An interactive guide for UK adults at every stage of the journey - from wondering if you have ADHD, through assessment and diagnosis, to building better support systems.

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Most women with ADHD spend decades being told they're anxious, lazy, not trying hard enough - or just too much.

They're none of those things. They have a neurological condition that was designed around boys - and they've been falling through the cracks ever since.

The Hidden Majority
75%
Of women with ADHD go undiagnosed

Women mask their symptoms. They overcompensate, internalise, and exhaust themselves holding it all together - until they can't anymore. Most are diagnosed only after a crisis, a burnout, or their child's diagnosis.

Source: ADHD Foundation, 2023

Read about ADHD in women →
Average UK Wait
5+ Years
From GP referral to adult ADHD assessment

NHS waiting lists for adult ADHD assessment have exploded. Some areas report waits of 5 to 7 years. You have the legal right to choose a different provider - and skip most of that queue.

Source: ADHD UK Right to Choose Campaign, 2024

Know your Right to Choose →
Late Diagnosis
36-39
Average age women are finally diagnosed

Boys get diagnosed at 7. Women get diagnosed at 37 - after decades of anxiety diagnoses, antidepressants, therapy that never quite worked, and a nagging feeling that something else is going on.

Source: Journal of Clinical Psychology, 2020

Why women get missed →
The Real Cost
The ADHD Tax
Late fees. Lost items. Impulse buys. Duplicate purchases.

Undiagnosed ADHD costs the average adult hundreds to thousands of pounds a year in forgotten subscriptions, late payment fees, impulse purchases, and things bought twice because you lost the first one.

Source: ADDitude Magazine research, 2023

Calculate your ADHD tax →

From First Suspicion to Full Support

Your ADHD Journey.
Every Stage. Covered.

Whether you're wondering if you have ADHD, waiting for assessment, freshly diagnosed, or looking for better support - we've mapped every step so you don't have to figure it out alone.

1 I think I might have ADHD
2 I'm trying to get assessed
3 I'm waiting for my assessment
4 I just got diagnosed
5 I need better support
Find Your Stage

You Don't Have to Navigate This Alone

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